How do we vote?
For a candidate/party or against? Usually against the incumbent… Or against what we dislike…

What do we vote for? What do we expect?
Leadership or stewardship?
Do we expect our elected officials to take us by our collective hand and lead us through darkness or just want them to turn on the light?
To make it so that we may lead whatever lives we choose for ourselves ? For as long as we behave in a generally acceptable manner, of course…

Which brings us to ‘what democracy really is’ and ‘how can we make it work for real’?

First of all, let me point out that no democratic ‘arrangement’ had ever failed. For as long as it managed to maintain its democratic nature, of course….
Secondly, no authoritarian regime had survived for long. And most of them had fallen under their own weight rather than under outside pressure.

You see, even the ‘weakest’ democracies are way more adaptable than any authoritarian regime. The fact that anybody can voice their concerns sheds light on each problem, as it arises. The fact that all positions under the despot are filled with yes-sayers actually blinds all authoritarian regimes.
Furthermore, the fact that ‘we, the people’ has peaceful means to ‘fire’ those who do not rise to the occasion makes it possible for the society, as a whole, to survive ‘the event’. Even if the previous ‘decision maker’ could not find a way out. Faced with the same predicament, an authoritarian regime must first pass through a revolutionary transformation…

Then, if democratic regimes have such an evolutionary advantage compared to the authoritarian ones, why are we still confronted by so many dictatorships?

Because democracy demands something which is in short supply.
Mutual respect among all members of a given society!
Furthermore, democracy works only when the questions seeking answers are about the ‘how-s’ of the matter and not about the ‘what-s’.
A democratic society will remain democratic for only as long as its members continue to stick together. To have a common goal. To share a common weltanschauung.

As soon as a society allows itself to be divided into ‘parties’ promoting antagonistic interests its previously democratic arrangement will fade into ‘mob-rule’. Which is the ante-chamber of authoritarianism.

Now, not to mention her in the same breath, but Hillary Clinton and her campaign of 2008 started the birther controversy,” he said. “I finished it. I finished it. You know what I mean, President Barack Obama was born in the United States, period. Now we all want to get back to making America strong and great again. Thank you.

Thank you everyone for your support and prayers as Candy and I battled COVID-19…. I have several co-morbidities and after a brief period when I only experienced minor discomfort, the symptoms accelerated and I became desperately ill. President Trump was following my condition and cleared me for the monoclonal antibody therapy that he had previously received, which I am convinced saved my life. President Trump, the fabulous White House medical team, and the phenomenal doctors at Walter Reed have been paying very close attention to my health and I do believe I am out of the woods at this point. I am hopeful that we can stop playing politics with medicine and instead combine our efforts and goodwill for the good of all people. While I am blessed to have the best medical care in the world (and I am convinced it saved my life), we must prioritize getting comparable treatments and care to everyone as soon as possible.

Lewandowski is the latest person to test positive for the virus after attended last week’s Election Night party at the White House. His diagnosis follows chief of staff Mark Meadows and Housing, Urban Development Secretary Ben Carson and several White House staffers.

“Don Jr is the second of the president’s children to test positive.”

Romanians have a proverb.
‘Each of us makes his own bed’.
Like all other popular sayings, this one is only partially true.
In many cases – in most, actually, our individual ‘leeway’ is limited by those who are higher than us.
In many cases, again, those decision makers have climbed there with our full ‘blessing’.
In a sense, the above mentioned proverb is true on more than one ‘levels…’

Just came across this story:

A king had 10 wild ferocious dogs.

He used them to torture and kill any minister that misguided him. A minister once gave an opinion which was wrong and which the king didn’t like at all. So he ordered that the minister to be thrown to the dogs. The minister said “I have served you loyally for 10 years and you do this?”

The king was unrelenting.

Minister pleaded “Please give me 10 days before you throw me to the dogs”.

The king agreed. In those 10 days the minister went to the keeper of the dogs and told him he wanted to serve the dogs for the next 10 days.

The guard was baffled, but he agreed. So the minister started feeding the dogs, caring for them, washing them, providing all sorts of comfort for them.

When the 10 days were up the king ordered that the minister be thrown to the dogs as sentenced. When he was thrown in, everyone was amazed at what they saw. The dogs were wagging their tails playing with the condemned minister, licking his feet.

The king was baffled at what he saw.

“What happened to the dogs?!” he growled.

The minister then said “I served the dogs for only 10 days and they didn’t forget my service. I served you for 10 years and you forgot all at the first mistake!”

The King realised his mistake and replaced the dogs with crocodiles!

As soon as I finished reading, I started to wonder…

Who, in their right minds, would accept to work for such an ’employer’?
After all, sooner rather than later, everybody makes mistakes!
And if the penalty for the slightest mistake is being thrown to a pack of wild dogs…

On the other hand, who – in their right minds, would treat their employees like that?
Given the fact that no right minded people would accept – as per my previous observation, to work under such ‘constraints’.

And, even more interesting, who – as an ‘owner’, would hire such a ‘manager’?

Two Republican senators are criticizing President Donald Trump and his team for their efforts to pressure state and local election officials to overturn President-elect Joe Biden’s victories in several closely contested states.

Sen. Mitt Romney, R-Utah, one of Trump’s most vocal GOP critics, tweeted Thursday, “It is difficult to imagine a worse, more undemocratic action by a sitting American President.”

Romney accused Trump on resorting to “overt pressure on state and local officials to subvert the will of the people and overturn the election.”

Sen. Ben Sasse, R-Neb., went after Trump lawyer Rudy Giuliani, who held a press conference Thursday presenting a list of far-fetched, thoroughly debunked claims on the 2020 election.

Sasse tweeted: “Rudy and his buddies should not pressure electors to ignore their certification obligations under the statute. We are a nation of laws, not tweets.”

Given what’s currently going on in the most powerful democracy on Earth, it becomes obvious why Putin had helped Trump’s 2016 campaign to become POTUS.
Remember Ulises’s Trojan horse?
OK, it’s impossible to know for sure whether Trump and Putin actually ‘negotiated’ anything.
The point being that for a seasoned judge of people Trump behaving like an elephant in a china shop after being sworn in office was a no-brainer.
Putin could not know exactly what Trump was going to do. But he was certain that it would not end well…. For America!

Now, that Trump is throwing democracy to the dogs simply because the process didn’t end up the way he wanted, Putin must be gloating in front of the biggest mirror in Kremlin!

As some of you might already know, two weeks ago my wife tested positive.
Hence we had to spend 14 days in isolation.
During which we had some interaction with the government bureaucracy. Through mail and telephone.

Meanwhile we witnessed, with an even keener than before interest, the public discussion about the whole thing.

Here’s what I learned.

The government bureaucracy, no matter how well intended its members might be – many of them on temporary positions, as expected during an emergency, is very close to the brink.
Meanwhile, the public – at least too many of those sharing their thoughts on FB, is still far from realizing the depth of the crises.

And here’s what I experienced.

Not knowing what’s going to happen to you is the worst thing.
Not knowing what’s going to happen to those you love is even worse.

Because you’re so busy worrying, you’re practically useless.
OK, you know statistics are on your side.
But statistics are not infallible. Hence ‘what if?’!

On top of being worried for your own, and your family’s, fate, comes the ‘political’ incertitude.
That sowed by the ‘naysayers’. And trafficked by the equally worried citizens. Specially by those who find themselves backing the opposition.

Things like ‘the mask is no good’. From ‘the mask cannot protect you’ to ‘the mask is a nuisance’ and ending with ‘the mask is dangerous’.
And besides being ‘no good’, the ‘mandate to wear one in public infringes upon our human rights’!

On top of that, the naysayers attempt to convince us that ‘we’re on our own’! That ‘government will not lift a finger to help us!’.
That its entire attention is focused on serving the ‘special interests’ which control it.

For all it’s worth, here’s my ‘official position’ on the matter.

We’re indeed on our own.
As we’ve always been!
The ‘government’ – all governments, is composed of humans.
Of people, like you and me.
Hence no government will ever be willing to do more for us than we are willing to do for our neighbors!

We are the ones who need to survive.
Because in order to thrive – as we all wish, we need to survive first!
As a fully functional social organism, mind you.
Hence we are the ones who need to start doing things!

And the first thing we need to do is to determine what comes first.
Our right to walk without wearing a ‘muzzle’?
Or our right to protect each other against a disruptive virus!

Se întreabă câte unii pe net:

‘Pentru cine lucrează guvernul ăsta?
De ce închide piețele dar lasă supermarketurile deschise?’

Alții:

‘Guvernul ăsta n-are nici o logică!
Ce rost are să închizi circulația pe timp de noapte?’

Guvernul n-are nici o logică….

Păi de unde să aibe?
Având în vedere că sunt și ei oameni…
Exact ca noi!

Cum ne-au spus unii că dreptul de a nu purta mască e mai important decât dreptul de a nu ne infecta, cum s-au găsit câte unii să dea jos ‘botnița’!
Să facă mișto de cei care continuă să o poarte.

Să îndemne, practic, la ‘nesupunere civică’!
În numele Libertății și a Drepturilor Omului…

Iar vinovat pentru toate astea este… cine altul?!? … Guvernul….

NU!
NOI suntem vinovații!

Noi n-am purtat masca.
Noi nu ne-am spălat pe mâini!
Noi tragem acum…

În clasele 1-4 am avut o Învățătoare. Doamna Codescu.
Nu țin minte să-i fi spus cineva, vreodată, ‘tovarășa’.
În clasă, bineînțeles. N-am de unde să știu ce se întâmpla în cancelarie.
Copii fiind, de multe ori foloseam scuza ‘păi așa mi-a spus….’
Doamna Codescu zâmbea și, învariabil, punea întrebarea:

Păi dacă-ți spunea … să te arunci în fântână, te aruncai?!?

Tu de ce nu porți mască?
Având în vedere că virusache se transmite ‘pe calea aerului’?

Tot guvernul e de vină că suntem noi proști?
Și ‘punem botu” precum niște copii de școală primară?

“Vaccin antigripal nu se gaseste nici in Canada – tocmai am vorbit cu un prieten aseara, la telefon. Suntem de moda veche… de fiecare data ne intrebam unul pe altul daca avem Whattsapp – da, amandoi, si data viitoare vorbim tot la telefon.

In ce priveste votul…

Daca e vorba de o situatie ‘bipolara’ – cum era pana nu demult, si nu-ti place nici o varianta, cea mai buna metoda este sa te duci si sa-ti anulezi votul. Strigi in gura mare ca iti pasa!

Daca sunt mai multe variante, cat de cat credibile, te duci si ii votezi pe cei care n-au fost inca. Chiar daca nu ajung la putere, macar le stau celorlalti ca un ghimpe-n coasta. Si ii forteaza sa faca ceva. Sau macar recurgi la prima metoda.

Daca nu te duci deloc… e echivalent cu a spune intregii lumi – atat politicienilor cat si celorlalti, ca tu esti atat de demoralizat incat ai de gand sa accepti tot ce ti va intampla.

Si atunci?

De ce sa mai faca cineva ceva pentru ‘tine’? Isi vor aranja ploile intre ei si… Iar ceilalti ‘demoralizati’ vor crede ca sunt singuri. Ca nu mai e nimeni in situatia lor. Revoltati de ceea ce se intampla!

Abia mult mai tarziu – adica atunci cand va ‘exploda’ din nou mamaliga, isi vor da seama, atat unii cat si ceilalti, ca ceea ce au interpretat ei ca fiind ‘demoralizare’ era, de fapt, scarba!

Dar va fi mult prea tarziu… atat pentru ei cat si pentru noi!”

Textul asta a vazut ‘lumina internetului’ mai intai ca raspuns.
Sau, mai degraba, ca indemn.
Adresat unor doi oameni cat se poate de rezonabili. Si cat se poate de ‘scarbiti’!
Abia dupa ce l-am ‘sent’ mi-am dat seama ca cei doi nu sunt singurii aflati in situatia asta.

Ca NU sunt SINGURI!

You live in a house.
And need a gardener.
You find one.
Because you don’t know him, you hire him for only a year, with the option to renew.
When the contract is due to renewal, you attempt to make up your mind.
The guy wasn’t that bad – for the garden, all things considered, but you’ve learned that he doesn’t brush his teeth and he occasionally beats his wife.
‘What the hell!. I seldom see the guy and I don’t know his wife! Why bother finding another?’

You live in a walled in community. Which is operated as a condominium.
The community needs a gardener.
In the area, there are only two agencies which provide gardeners. Each of them sends somebody. One of the guys is selected.
After one year, the community organizes a meeting to decide whether to extend the contract or to hire another guy. The garden is, more or less, OK only the guy is rude. So much so that he had alienated some of the owners as well as some of the neighboring walled-in communities.
The caveat being that the guy available from the other agency is deemed unreliable by those who would like to continue with the current one.
The owners are so divided that some of them no longer pay their dues while some of the opposition picket the entrance gate.

You live in a village.
You need a mayor…

According to Alan Hayek – the guy who claims the copyright for the relevant entry into the Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy, the wager doesn’t make any sense unless you consider that God is, however remotely, possible.

Now, that I grabbed your attention, let me point it to the subject du jour.

The face mask!

To wear or not to wear one…

Strangely enough, many of those who believe in God are adamantly refusing to wear a mask.
They don’t actually see God yet they find the world as THE argument for His existence.
And, at the same time, they refuse to acknowledge the seriousness of the Covid 19 pandemic. Which had already killed, or hastened the death of, more than 1.2 million people worldwide.

OK, almost no mask – specially the ones worn by us, civilians, is 100% fool-proof.
But wearing one is far better than none at all…
OK, most of us would weather the infection with relative ease.
But some would die!
Then why spread it around?

For that, if you didn’t already know, is more than half of what the masks do!
They make it harder for those of us who already have it – but don’t know it yet, to spread it around.

Help prevent the spread of COVID-19 by protecting yourself and others. Keep in mind that you may have the virus even if you don’t have symptoms.

You still consider it to be a muzzle?

Why? Only because it is mandated by the government?
And you don’t trust your own government? While living in a democratic country?

But since when do you rely on your government to tell you which is the sensible thing to do?

„Fă ce spune popa, nu ce face popa.”

Așa ne învată înțelepciunea populară…

Mai zilele trecute, în plină pandemie și cu mai puțin de 6 săptămâni înainte de alegerile parlamentare, Patriarhul Daniel a spus niște chestii.

Drept pentru care, CTP a considerat că trebuie să spună și el ceva cu ocazia asta.

Patriarhia, prin intermediul purtătorului său de cuvânt, a replicat.
CTP a răspuns la rândul său.
Unii analiști au analizat răspunsul Patriarhiei…
Iar alți analiști au început să ne atragă atenția, pe diverse tonuri, că încercarea de a băga zâzanie între Biserică, de fapt între întâi-stătătorul ei, și poporul credincios este o lucrare diavolească. Care e doar pe placul Moscovei.

Nimeni nu se întrebă ce-ar mai fi scris CTP-ul dacă Patriarhul n-ar fi spus chestiile alea.
Tot așa, nimeni nu se întreabă cum de în fruntea BOR-ului se află o persoana atât de contestabilă… Un frate care ridică niște semne de întrebare cu privire la casa părinteasca, un dosar din arhiva Securității despre care nu e foarte clar dacă a fost distrus sau nu – dar care a existat, o tânără care ar dori un test de paternitate…

Și chiar credeți că toate astea ar putea slăbi legătura dintre Biserică și popor? În condițiile în care poporul a învățat, de mult, să facă diferența dintre cuvintele și acțiunile preoților?

Being married doesn’t come with such a huge array of ‘perks’.
Specially when you know how to cook a meal. Wash your underwear. Use the vacuum cleaner. Own a dishwasher…

The main ‘attraction’, for me, being the presence of the person I married.
The daily interaction with her.
Sex included!

No, we don’t have it every day! It would be nice but we’re not sexual athletes…
Which brings me to the point I was trying to make.

We’re currently isolating because of Covid.
She had lunch with some of her coworkers, one of them had it – a-symptomatically at that moment, and now all of them are quarantined. Rather mild symptoms for all of them, a week into the whole thing.

‘Isolating’ means that we no longer share a bed. That we no longer eat together. That when we need to talk to each other we wear masks and stand as far apart as the geography of the room allows it.
And, of course, no sex!

Which, for both of us, is a real loss! Specially for me…
I’m almost 60 now. I don’t expect to remain ‘fully functional’ for very long.
Five more years? That would be some 250 weeks…
Loosing two of them for nothing isn’t my idea of a ‘fair deal’!

Hope I made you laugh. Or at least smile.
Even if this isn’t a laughing matter!

Put your mask on!