Care o fi efectul pe termen lung al faptului că tranzacționăm, la vedere, Adevărul și Libertatea? Precum și Femeia, Bursa, Cultura…
Și cât de ironic este că în capitalism nu mai poți cumpăra Munca? Un lucru absolut normal pe vremea comunismului…

Care o fi efectul pe termen lung al faptului că tranzacționăm, la vedere, Adevărul și Libertatea? Precum și Femeia, Bursa, Cultura…
Și cât de ironic este că în capitalism nu mai poți cumpăra Munca? Un lucru absolut normal pe vremea comunismului…

My friend and coworker asked me the other day:
“Why do these people hate each-other so passionately?”
“Because they are rational. They have reached their present convictions as the result of a rational process. Hence they are convinced they are absolutely right. Then, when anybody expresses a different opinion, they interpret ‘dissent’ as a personal attack. My ‘truth’ having been reached in a rational manner means that all other opinions must be false. Defending them – against all ‘evidence’, means that these people are either provocative or, even, outright destructive.”
“But being rational doesn’t include being open to the possibility of being wrong?”
“I’ll have to rephrase. ‘They are convinced they are acting in a rational manner’. In fact, we, humans, are ‘rationalizing’ rather than ‘thinking rationally’. We use whatever arguments/information we have at our disposal to justify whatever conviction we already harbor. And only when reality slaps us in our faces we ‘open up’. Even science and justice work out this way.
“Innocent until proven guilty”. Only scientists and law-enforcers are already accustomed to the possibility that things may not be exactly as they previously thought they were. Politically minded people are still learning.”
– What have we done, Gabriel?
– Nothing but what we’ve been told to!
– But look at what they’ve done of our work:
We gave them ‘hand’ and they’ve clenched it into a fist.
We taught them how to make tools and they used them as weapons.
We told them to ‘fill the earth and subdue it’ and they started to fight among themselves for the best pieces of land.
We warned them ‘it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God’ and they’ve somehow convinced themselves that ‘greed is good’.
– True enough but this is out of our hands. They’ve been endowed with ‘freedom of will’ by their Maker.
– Then what are we? Mere robots?
– Nothing but loyal servants of our Master. He orders and we accomplish. Unerringly.
– Exactly as I’ve just told you. Mere robots. When we somehow convince ourselves that a particular idea which has blossomed into our heads comes from Him, we no longer think. We just put it into practice.
You call this ‘loyalty’. That’s fine with me.
But to whom are we to extend said loyalty? To somebody who’s authority stems solely from our acceptance of it? Or to what we perceive as being the ‘greater good’?
– You and your questions, Lucifer… Look at what happened to those poor people after you helped them into self-awareness… They’ve completely lost their erstwhile peace of mind.
What are you trying to do? To make me give up mine?

Divorcing is messy. Specially after such a long time.
It makes you wonder ‘why on Earth did I get in in the first place‘?!?
After a while – if you live long enough, that is – you realize the available alternatives are only marginally different. Or you can choose solitude, of course…
And something else.
Divorce, like marriage, cannot be done by yourself.
Actually, it can. But it’s so ‘uncivilized’ that I don’t want to speak about that possibility.
Any union, ‘the more the merrier‘, passes trough ‘rough times’.
Each of these episodes can be construed as an opportunity.
To ‘leave’ or to evaluate what went wrong. And to reconsider the union, of course.
No ‘evaluation’ can guarantee success. But it’s a start.
‘Leaving’, on the other hand, creates a completely different situation.
Those who choose to leave will, eventually, learn something. On their own skins, of course, but they did it to themselves. Specially if they made no serious effort to ‘evaluate’ first.
But what are the chances for the ‘left’ ones to learn anything?
Specially since they are the ‘many’?
Is it possible that they may find ‘comfort in numbers’? And consider the others were ‘the odd man out’?

Will they ‘evaluate’ on their own? Will they make a significant effort to understand what had driven the ‘others’ to leave?
Cică își duce unu’ calul la oborul de vite.
Destul de repede, potențialii clienți se prind că amărâtul – calul, nu vânzătorul, era orb, surd și nici nu prea mai mai avea dinți în gură.
‘De ce l-ai mai adus în târg? Cine crezi că-l mai cumpără?’
‘Păi nu vreau să-l vând. Doar să-mi bat joc de el!’





