I share his concern about the huge social and economic effects produced by extreme wealth polarization but I don’t think that beating anybody may solve anything.
On the contrary, starting a fight instead of a dialog only compounds the problem and worsens the perspectives.
As to why the Icelanders where successful in what they did…this is indeed very simple.
They focused on the wrong doers, not on the 1%.
Belonging to the 1% is not a sin.
Trying to get/remain there by wrongful means is the place where problems are generated and it is here where we should concentrate our attention.
I remember discussing this topic with one of my favorite teachers, Petre Anghel. He once said:
– After all teaching is one of the most ‘conservative’ human endeavors. Not only that it endows the young with a wealth of information but it also means teaching them useful time proven survival strategies.
– ?!?
– Traditions, my son (I was 45 at that time), are nothing but time proven survival strategies. Yet at the same time we, teachers, have an immense responsibility. Besides passing over traditions and the ability to take orders we need to teach you how to adapt those traditions if life demands it. And this is where the real conservatism is. How to determine that a change is really necessary and how to implement it with minimum side effects needs a hefty dose of humility. Implementing wholesale discretionary change and then ‘training’ everybody into submission is not that hard, even Lenin and Stalin were able to pull this stunt, but what does this mean to the society, in the long run?
On the other hand the institutionalized education system, be it public or private, is an immensely powerful tool in the hands of the current generation. When using it “this” generation should be aware that power implies responsibility. The psychological conviction that ‘my way is the best way’ is understandable. After all if it weren’t good enough we wouldn’t have been here to pester the new generation with our advice: ‘this is how things should be done!’. Yet we should always remember how it was when we were growing up and how we rebelled against our parents. The mere fact that we have less children than our parents did and hence it’s easier for us to dominate them by sheer numbers doesn’t mean anything has changed, each generation defines itself ‘against’ the old one.
If the old one is wise enough to understand that, to let go, to encourage the next generation to experiment – just as the eagles encourage their young to fly away from the nest – after a while the ‘hatchlings’ will come back to the nesting ground for further instructions, to take care of their old and eventually to build their own nest and to continue the tradition. But while gone away they would have learned new skills and discovered new things so they’ll be able to adapt that tradition if needed.
If the old generation insists in keeping a tight leash the rambunctious will leave anyway, but never to return, and the old nesting ground will be left with the frightful and the meek to try to continue their parents work. It’s up to us to decide which way we want it to be.
It’s our children’s future at stake here, and ours too, so we’d better take care.
Unii sustin ca ‘barbatii sunt de pe Marte iar femeile de pe Venus’.
Eu continui sa ma intreb “daca tot s-au hotarat sa traiasca impreuna pe Pamant de ce nu se adapteaza oare noilor conditii?”
Ca de obicei in aceste cazuri multumesc celor care mi-au trimis bancurile pe mail.
“Un om s-a intrebat daca e pacat sa faca sex in ziua Domnului, deoarece nu era sigur daca sexul este o munca sau o joaca.
Asa ca s-a dus mai intai si a intrebat un calugar asupra problemei in cauza. Calugarul i-a raspuns:
– “Fiul meu, dupa indelungate cercetari asupra Cartii Sfinte sunt in masura sa-ti zic ca sexul este o munca, asadar este pacat sa-l faci in ziua Domnului”.
Neincrezator, si gandind “ce stie un calugar despre sex?”, omul s-a dus apoi la un preot cu experienta si casatorit. A primit acelasi raspuns: sexul este o munca.
Pentru a se lamuri definitiv s-a gandit sa se duca si la rabin. Rabinul i-a raspuns:
– “Dragul meu, cu siguranta sexul este un joc si poti sa-l faci linistit asadar in ziua de Sabat.”
Curios, omul nostru l-a intrebat:
– “Cum poti fi asa de sigur?”
Zambind, rabinul i-a raspuns:
– “Daca sexul ar fi fost o munca, nevasta-mea ar fi pus-o pe menajera sa-l faca.”
Intr-o zi sotul vine mai devreme acasa si uimit o gaseste pe nevasta-sa cu amantul ei.Surprins,acesta ii spune amantului:
− Sunt un om relativ calm, hai in camera cealalta sa discutam.
Amantul bucuros ca nu are probleme se duce in camera de alaturi si sta de vorba cu sotul femeii ca de la barbat la barbat
− Fii atent ce facem,zise sotul. Voi trage doua focuri de arma in aer si ne vom preface morti la cine va veni nevasta-mea acela o va pastra.
– OK.
Sotul trage cele doua focuri de arma si din camera de vizavi se aude:
− Costele, poti sa iesi de sub pat ca dobitocii aia s-au impuscat intre ei.
Orice mamă trage nădejde ca fiica ei să aibă noroc de un soț mai bun decît a avut ea.
Pe de altă parte, e absolut convinsă că fiul ei nu va avea noroc de o femeie cum a avut taică-su.
“Cum vei vedea iubirea celuilalt daca de atata lumina orbita vei fi
Cum vei gasi forta sa crezi intr-un maine nepatat daca in fiecare clipa tu nu
Tu n-ai sa ai pentru ce muri?”
Current situation:
A man and a woman have sex.
She gets impregnated.
He accepts, or not, ‘the responsibility’ and, sometimes, helps with raising the child.
Isn’t it high time to change our attitude about all this?
How about:
A man and a woman have sex.
She gets impregnated and decides to keep the baby.
She acknowledges, or not, his contribution and allows him to take part in raising the child.
?
I have great respect for Fareed Zakaria, I’ve been following him for at least twenty years.
That doesn’t mean that we always see things the same way…
He recently published “America’s educational failings” in the Washington Post. To me at least it represents a very balanced analysis of what ‘s currently going on. And yet!
“…if we really want to reduce inequality, we need to reform the system,….
And here is where we start to disagree!
Trying to ‘reduce inequality’ implies a lot of arrogance: it means we know where the inequality level should be and that we are confident enough that our actions would beneficial. (To whom?)
How about setting a more modest goal, long term survival?
In fact some inequality is good, it motivates people. Too much inequality, on the other hand, induces social fragility – the country actually falls apart.
The symptom that things have started to go south is ‘mass dependency’ – too many individuals cannot fend for themselves and depend on others, government or private charity, for daily survival. The tax payers, those who have to foot the bill, start to rebel while the recipients grow despondent. This has happened time and time again, from Ancient Rome to modern days communist states.
So yes, education is the only way out but we have to be very careful what we teach to the young generations.
Telling them to hunt for equality is one thing, encouraging them to better themselves by offering them a level playing field with low (or even 0) entrance fee and a lot of opportunities is quite another.
Every morning I drive my wife to work, smack in the center of Bucharest.
The streets are narrow and full of potholes, for a couple of days the weather was lousy, the radio was belching horrible news about what’s going on in Ukraine yet for sometime now I found a strong reason for being optimist.
I realized driving habits have changed in a very subtle but extremelly significant way. People have understood that mutual respect works a lot better than sheer aggression: they honk a lot less, let others merge into traffic, do not ‘herd’ into bottlenecks as they used to…
In fewer words people have learned that considerate cooperation gets you farther than mindless competition.
Now I’m watching closely for signs of this new attitude being displayed in other circumstances.
PS I
For my American and Western European readers this must sound like hogwash, being used with the courteous driving practiced in their respective countries. They should take into consideration that this development has come about spontaneously, the police or any other agency having (almost) nothing to do with the process. People simply understood, individually, that in this manner all of us will get sooner to our destination.
PS. II
On second thoughts … In fact decent competition, the kind that takes place according to rules, is just another form of cooperation. Even war waged according to the Hague convention can be seen as a form of cooperation…
PS. III
Please notice how everybody takes care of those around them. Do they really care about the ‘other guy’? I honestly don’t know and I openly admit that I don’t really care. But the fact remains that they act as if they do and the consequence is that traffic never gets bogged down.





