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“The public school system: Usually a twelve year sentence of mind control. Crushing creativity, smashing individualism, encouraging collectivism and compromise, destroying the exercise of intellectual inquiry, twisting it instead into meek subservience to authority.” —Walter Karp

I remember discussing this topic with one of my favorite teachers, Petre Anghel. He once said:
– After all teaching is one of the most ‘conservative’ human endeavors. Not only that it endows the young with a wealth of information but it also means teaching them useful time proven survival strategies.
– ?!?
– Traditions, my son (I was 45 at that time), are nothing but time proven survival strategies. Yet at the same time we, teachers, have an immense responsibility. Besides passing over traditions and the ability to take orders we need to teach you how to adapt those traditions if life demands it. And this is where the real conservatism is. How to determine that a change is really necessary and how to implement it with minimum side effects needs a hefty dose of humility. Implementing wholesale discretionary change and then ‘training’ everybody into submission is not that hard, even Lenin and Stalin were able to pull this stunt, but what does this mean to the society, in the long run?

On the other hand the institutionalized education system, be it public or private, is an immensely powerful tool in the hands of the current generation. When using it “this” generation should be aware that power implies responsibility. The psychological conviction that ‘my way is the best way’ is understandable. After all if it weren’t good enough we wouldn’t have been here to pester the new generation with our advice: ‘this is how things should be done!’. Yet we should always remember how it was when we were growing up and how we rebelled against our parents. The mere fact that we have less children than our parents did and hence it’s easier for us to dominate them by sheer numbers doesn’t mean anything has changed, each generation defines itself ‘against’ the old one.
If the old one is wise enough to understand that, to let go, to encourage the next generation to experiment – just as the eagles encourage their young to fly away from the nest – after a while the ‘hatchlings’ will come back to the nesting ground for further instructions, to take care of their old and eventually to build their own nest and to continue the tradition. But while gone away they would have learned new skills and discovered new things so they’ll be able to adapt that tradition if needed.

 

If the old generation insists in keeping a tight leash the rambunctious will leave anyway, but never to return, and the old nesting ground will be left with the frightful and the meek to try to continue their parents work. It’s up to us to decide which way we want it to be.

It’s our children’s future at stake here, and ours too, so we’d better take care.

Unii sustin ca ‘barbatii sunt de pe Marte iar femeile de pe Venus’.
Eu continui sa ma intreb daca tot s-au hotarat sa traiasca impreuna pe Pamant de ce nu se adapteaza oare noilor conditii?”

Ca de obicei in aceste  cazuri multumesc celor care mi-au trimis bancurile pe mail.

“Un om s-a intrebat daca e pacat sa faca sex in ziua Domnului, deoarece nu era sigur daca sexul este o munca sau o joaca.
Asa ca s-a dus mai intai si a intrebat un calugar asupra problemei in cauza. Calugarul i-a raspuns:
– “Fiul meu, dupa indelungate cercetari asupra Cartii Sfinte sunt in masura sa-ti zic ca sexul este o munca, asadar este pacat sa-l faci in ziua Domnului”.
Neincrezator, si gandind “ce stie un calugar despre sex?”, omul s-a dus apoi la un preot cu experienta si casatorit. A primit acelasi raspuns: sexul este o munca.
Pentru a se lamuri definitiv s-a gandit sa se duca si la rabin. Rabinul i-a raspuns:
– “Dragul meu, cu siguranta sexul este un joc si poti sa-l faci linistit asadar in ziua de Sabat.”
Curios, omul nostru l-a intrebat:
– “Cum poti fi asa de sigur?”
Zambind, rabinul i-a raspuns:
– “Daca sexul ar fi fost o munca, nevasta-mea ar fi pus-o pe menajera sa-l faca.”

 

Intr-o zi sotul vine mai devreme acasa si uimit o gaseste pe nevasta-sa cu amantul ei.Surprins,acesta ii spune amantului: 
− Sunt un om relativ calm, hai in camera cealalta sa discutam.
Amantul bucuros ca nu are probleme se duce in camera de alaturi si sta de vorba cu sotul femeii ca de la barbat la barbat
− Fii atent ce facem,zise sotul. Voi trage doua focuri de arma in aer si ne vom preface morti la cine va veni nevasta-mea acela o va pastra.
– OK.
Sotul trage cele doua focuri de arma si din camera de vizavi se aude:
− Costele, poti sa iesi de sub pat ca dobitocii aia s-au impuscat intre ei.

 

Orice mamă trage nădejde ca fiica ei să aibă noroc de un soț mai bun decît a avut ea.
Pe de altă parte, e absolut convinsă că fiul ei nu va avea noroc de o femeie cum a avut taică-su.

 

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Our admiration for Plato speaks volumes about who we are and about where we are on the historical ladder.

Toward the end of the astonishing period of Athenian creativity that furnished Western civilization with the greater part of its intellectual, artistic, and political wealth, Plato wrote The Republic, his discussion of the nature and meaning of justice and of the ideal state and its ruler.”

What had happened, back then, was that Athens had invented a certain kind of democracy (based on ample opportunities and relative abundance) and, using that political system, had build a very successful society.

In time, the system became perverted – mainly because pampered people loose their edge – and its future demise started to become apparent for the open minded thinkers. Among them, Socrates was one of the most vocal critics and had payed dearly for not keeping his mouth shut.

We should remember now, if we are to believe Plato’s words, that ‘the Republic’ is nothing but the faithful reproduction of an actual conversation. Socrates own thinking, in spirit and in words.

Let me take a break at this moment and remind you two things:

1. Rome, which had also started as a democracy, at some point had conquered the entire Greece – including Athens, discovered the works of Plato, admired them and, a little later, its political system also degenerated into authoritarianism and eventually failed miserably.

2. Western Europe had forgotten about Plato for more than a millennium and rediscovered him because the Arabs had preserved his work. Moreover until recently  only specialized scholars had any idea about who Plato was…

Back to the ruling process…

I’ll assume the translation was faithful and Plato really meant ‘rule’ as opposed to ‘govern’, ‘impose your own will upon the community’ instead of ‘putting in practice the will of the people’…

Now let me remind you that no matter how wise a ruler and how proficient a builder Pericles was, his reign ended the epoch of grandeur for Athens. After that, the great city had experienced a 2000 years decline…And here are some other interesting thoughts about that era: “There is no little irony in the fact that one of the things we most admire in the ancient Greeks is their love of freedom – and yet one of the chief manifestations of that love was their constant striving to control in some way the futures of their neighbors.” (Robin Waterfield, Athens, a History…)

So what was Plato really trying to say?

“The heaviest penalty for declining to rule is to be ruled by someone inferior to yourself.”

Well, I have no way of knowing exactly what went through his head when he was writing this but I can infer a thing or two from his words:

– He was speaking about an epoch were bona fide democracy was no longer the prevailing political system. Not only that he used ‘rule’ instead of ‘govern’ but, according to the written texts which have survived, the public offices were up for grabs and the ‘important’ person itself was the one to decide whether to ‘rule’ or to govern.

– People were rather arrogant at that time… who’s job was to decide who was ‘above’ and who was ‘below’? How come am “I” so sure that “I” am the most qualified (superior) to rule and that everybody else is/should be considered my inferior?

Then what made Athens, and then Rome, fall from the pinnacles where they had managed to climb while they governed themselves as democracies?

As for Plato maintaining that all he did was to ‘faithfully’ record Socrates’ words… allow me to have some doubts.

Socrates was asked to kill himself because of his teachings – ‘you should learn to think with your own head’ – were perceived, by the powerful-s of the day, as being dangerous for the younger generations.

Was it be possible that the same thinker might have uttered, as Plato pretended:

[Socrates]Then, I said, the business of us who are the founders of the State will be to compel the best minds to attain that knowledge which we have already shown to be the greatest of all-they must continue to ascend until they arrive at the good; but when they have ascended and seen enough we must not allow them to do as they do now.

[Glaucon] What do you mean?

[Socrates] I mean that they remain in the upper world: but this must not be allowed; they must be made to descend again among the prisoners in the cave, and partake of their labors and honors, whether they are worth having or not.

[Glaucon] But is not this unjust? he said; ought we to give them a worse life, when they might have a better?

[Socrates] You have again forgotten, my friend, I said, the intention of the legislator, who did not aim at making any one class in the State happy above the rest; the happiness was to be in the whole State, and he held the citizens together by persuasion and necessity, making them benefactors of the State, and therefore benefactors of one another; to this end he created them, not to please themselves, but to be his instruments in binding up the State.

There is absolutely no difference between this line of thinking and that which was taught by Marx to his followers:

The Communists, therefore, are on the one hand, practically, the most advanced and resolute section of the working-class parties of every country, that section which pushes forward all others; on the other hand, theoretically, they have over the great mass of the proletariat the advantage of clearly understanding the line of march, the conditions, and the ultimate general results of the proletarian movement.

The immediate aim of the Communists is the same as that of all other proletarian parties: formation of the proletariat into a class, overthrow of the bourgeois supremacy, conquest of political power by the proletariat.

The theoretical conclusions of the Communists are in no way based on ideas or principles that have been invented, or discovered, by this or that would-be universal reformer.

They merely express, in general terms, actual relations springing from an existing class struggle, from a historical movement going on under our very eyes. The abolition of existing property relations is not at all a distinctive feature of communism.

What we have here is nothing but two examples of extreme arrogance.

Both posit that ‘I (disguised as ‘the thinkers’/’communists’) know better than all of you so you’d better obey me. Or else.’

For both the State is instrument of oppression, not the expression of the free will of its inhabitants.

I refuse to accept that Socrates actually thought like that.

On the other hand Plato wrote his Republic during Pericles’ reign and Aristotle, Plato’s favorite pupil, was the teacher of Alexander the Great.
And no matter how many exploits Alexander had ‘committed’, we shouldn’t forget that he was nothing but yet another ruthless dictator. More successful than most but still a dictator. Same thing for Pericles. He was indeed a great builder and administrator but his reign marked the end of the Athenian democracy. Very soon after him the entire Greece had lost her independence and political significance.

All that was left was the Greek culture. The habit of thinking with one’s own head. Socrates’ legacy, not Plato’s.

PS.

Now what if Plato had written his dialogs as a warning rather than as a set of guidelines? ‘This will happen’ – historical facts were already clear enough, ‘if you do such and such things’.

It’s up to us, his readers, to choose what we consider to be the proper interpretation!

Which reminds me of the diehard Marxists who still believe ‘the bearded one’ was right and that his ideas had been badly put in practice by the likes of Lenin, Stalin, Pol Pot, Ceausescu…

Ce e nou in asta? Din cauza nenorocitului de Ceausescu care adusese tara intr-un asfel de hal incat copii prematuri sau bolnavi erau transfuzati cu sange testat superficial si in felul asta a aparut o intreaga generatie de bolnavi?

Pentru aceia dintre voi care nu stiu cum e cu SIDA asta, treaba sta cam asa.
Iei virusul, de cele mai multe ori prin contact sexual dar se poate si prin transfuzii sau pe alte cai, dupa cateva saptamani sau luni ai niste simptome ca de raceala si boala intra in latenta. In timp virusul se imprastie in intregul sistem imunitar si il slabeste in asa hal incat, netratat, bolnavul moare din cauza unor infectii cu germeni ‘oportunisti’ (prezenti in mod curent si de obicei nepericulosi) sau a unor cancere rare si ciudate.
Perversitatea acestui virus consta exact in faptul ca ‘adoarme’ vigilenta sistemului imunitar. In felul asta organismul nu mai recunoaste agresorii (virusul cu pricina isi face ‘un culcus’ chiar in interiorul sistemului imunitar, pe care il slabeste treptat) si apoi cade prada atacului patogenilor oportunisti.

 

Bine, numai ca eu nu la felul asta de SIDA ma gandeam acum.
La nivel societal rolul sistemului imunitar este jucat de triada libertate de exprimare (presa)/justitie/politie. In felul asta ies la iveala comportamentele aberante/antisociale ale acelora dintre noi care incearca sa o ia ‘pe scurtatura’ iar societatea poate sa se protejeze de efectele nefaste ale activitatii acestora. Pe termen lung toti avem are de castigat, tocmai prin mentinerea intregului mecanism in stare de functionare iar intr-o societate normala cei mai interesati de bunul mers al acestor mecanisme sunt chiar cei care au cel mai mult de pierdut daca totul se duce dracului.
Adica oamenii cu dare de mana care au de pierdut averile stranse cu greu si oamenii educati care inteleg ce se intampla.

Acum hai sa ne uitam in jur.

” “O parte semnificativă a presei este în continuare folosită de patroni ca armă în vederea obţinerii unor avantaje politice şi economice sau pentru a pune presiune pe justiţie”, se spune în raport, precizându-se că “politizarea discursului mediatic a fost evidenţiată de decizia unor jurnalişti de a migra în mediul politic şi de atacurile tot mai frecvente între oamenii din presă, în care predomină ameninţările, injuriile şi limbajul vulgar”.

În raportul ActiveWatch se spune şi că media îşi abandonează adeseori misiunea de a informa, în schimbul promovării unor mesaje favorabile intereselor unor entităţi private.

Totodată, conform raportului FreeEx, unele instituţii media folosesc abuziv dreptul la liberă exprimare pentru a intimida alte persoane/grupuri sociale/ justiţia/grupări politice, iar, pe de altă parte, “mai mulţi politicieni au cerut închiderea unor instituţii media”.

“Abaterile etice tot mai frecvente ale presei au fost sancţionate de instanţe, în baza noului Cod Civil”, se spune în raport.

Potrivit aceluiaşi raport, unele instituţii media şi unii oameni din presă îşi somează colegii de breaslă să nu mai relateze critic despre ei, ameninţând cu procese.”

 

Adica exact o parte dintre cei care au cel mai mult de pierdut, investitori si ‘oameni de cultura’, comploteaza pentru a deturna ‘triada de protectie’ de la functia ei fireasca – apararea intregului organism social – catre promovarea unor interese de grup.

SIDA, mâncați-aș!!!

Si noi, astialalti, stam ca fraierii si asteptam sa ne manance ‘oportunistii’ de cur.
OK, aia care fac treaba asta nu isi dau seama ca isi taie singuri creanga de sub picioare, cred ca vor putea fugi la timp din tara, or fi convinsi ca sunt deasupra ‘tutulor’… da’ chiar toti… parca a dat cineva cu praf de orbu’ gainilor … nu ne mai vine odata mintea cea de pe urma la cap…

PS 1. Pentru cine vrea sa citeasca intregul raport Active Watch, iata-l aici: http://www.activewatch.ro/ro/freeex/publicatii/raport-freeex-2013-video/

 

 

 

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Now why would anyone who finds itself in a boat be drilling holes in it?
Insanity?
Not that it doesn’t happen…

“Cum vei vedea iubirea celuilalt daca de atata lumina orbita vei fi
Cum vei gasi forta sa crezi intr-un maine nepatat daca in fiecare clipa tu nu
Tu n-ai sa ai pentru ce muri?”

 

Current situation:

A man and a woman have sex.
She gets impregnated.
He accepts, or not, ‘the responsibility’ and, sometimes, helps with raising the child.

Isn’t it high time to change our attitude about all this?

How about:

A man and a woman have sex.
She gets impregnated and decides to keep the baby.
She acknowledges, or not, his contribution and allows him to take part in raising the child.

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I have great respect for Fareed Zakaria, I’ve been following him for at least twenty years.
That doesn’t mean that we always see things the same way…
He recently published “America’s educational failings” in the Washington Post. To me at least it represents a very balanced analysis of what ‘s currently going on. And yet!

“…if we really want to reduce inequality, we need to reform the system,….
And here is where we start to disagree!
Trying to ‘reduce inequality’ implies a lot of arrogance: it means we know where the inequality level should be and that we are confident enough that our actions would beneficial. (To whom?)
How about setting a more modest goal, long term survival?
In fact some inequality is good, it motivates people. Too much inequality, on the other hand, induces social fragility – the country actually falls apart.
The symptom that things have started to go south is ‘mass dependency’ – too many individuals cannot fend for themselves and depend on others, government or private charity, for daily survival. The tax payers, those who have to foot the bill, start to rebel while the recipients grow despondent. This has happened time and time again, from Ancient Rome to modern days communist states.
So yes, education is the only way out but we have to be very careful what we teach to the young generations.
Telling them to hunt for equality is one thing, encouraging them to better themselves by offering them a level playing field with low (or even 0) entrance fee and a lot of opportunities is quite another.

Every morning I drive my wife to work, smack in the center of Bucharest.

The streets are narrow and full of potholes, for a couple of days the weather was lousy, the radio was belching horrible news about what’s going on in Ukraine yet for sometime now I found a strong reason for being optimist.

I realized driving habits have changed in a very subtle but extremelly significant way. People have understood that mutual respect works a lot better than sheer aggression: they honk a lot less, let others merge into traffic, do not ‘herd’ into bottlenecks as they used to…

In fewer words people have learned that considerate cooperation gets you farther than mindless competition.

Now I’m watching closely for signs of this new attitude being displayed in other circumstances.

 

PS I
For my American and Western European readers this must sound like hogwash, being used with the courteous driving practiced in their respective countries. They should take into consideration that this development has come about spontaneously, the police or any other agency having (almost) nothing to do with the process. People simply understood, individually, that in this manner all of us will get sooner to our destination.

PS. II
On second thoughts …  In fact decent competition, the kind that takes place according to rules, is just another form of cooperation. Even war waged according to the Hague convention can be seen as a form of cooperation…

PS. III
Please notice how everybody takes care of those around them. Do they really care about the ‘other guy’? I honestly don’t know and I openly admit that I don’t really care. But the fact remains that they act as if they do and the consequence is that traffic never gets bogged down.

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I started life as any average child, trying to learn as much as I could from those around me.

For practical reasons I studied mechanical engineering – law or philosophy were dead ends in communist Romania.
After the fall of the ancient regime I started investing in the stock market and became interested in technical analysis. This is how I found out about Daniel Kahneman and the notion of ‘behavioral economics’.
Trying to deepen my understanding about how society works I went back to school, sociology this time. Here I found out about Herbert Simon – bounded rationality – and Catalin Zamfir – what constant uncertainty does to human mind and why ideologies are so powerful. (Unfortunatly Zamfir hasn’t published much, if anything, in English so I have to settle for this as a sketchy replacement)

A couple of months ago I rediscovered Zen. It had grabbed my attention some 35 years ago – I had found some books in a public library, a donation from L’Institute Francais. Sometimes in my spare moments I look up ‘zen’ on the internet and this is what I came across a few moments ago:

“The Path of Foolish Beings

Who are the foolish beings? According to the Shin tradition of Pure Land Buddhism, we all are. Mark Unno explains that only by becoming aware of our limited self and acknowledging our fundamental foolishness can we realize the oneness of all beings and the limitless flow of compassion.”

Maybe I should have sticked with Zen in the first place…