‘I nearly fell off my chair when [the instructor] summed up: ‘You’ll find a good girl. If you find one who says ‘no,’ that’s the one you want.’ Photograph: Alamy

Click on the picture and read a very interesting article about what’s going on in some schools.

Before that I’d like you to consider something.
How, and what, am I supposed to teach you about a certain activity if the gist of my lesson is going to be that the best thing you can do, supposedly for a while (?!?), is to refrain yourself from engaging in that activity?